Women
have learned all the secrets and little tricks that
can make their faces glow, their bodies firm and
their skin and hair flawless. But there's one area
where we still have much to learn. And it has a lot
of bearing on how we look as well. It is in taking
care of our self-esteem.
We all
know that when we're feeling down, inferior or
unworthy, our faces sag and our overall features
look tired and defeated. Some may even argue that
have strong self-esteem is more attractive than
having the right physical attributes, and they may
have a point. Following are a few simple tips that
can help women rev up their self-esteem.
1. Press
The Magic Button -- Most of us need to boost our
self-confidence every now and then. One of the best
ways to do this is to recall exactly who we are and
why we should feel good about ourselves. Create a
Magic Button -- a mental image of three things that
make you feel good -- and press on it once in a
while. These things could include images of your
biggest achievements, the smiling faces of people
who matter to you or something as simple as a piece
of music.
This
Magic Button is especially important when we down
and things aren't going our way. We have to remember
that whatever setbacks we've faced are temporary.
We've overcome them before to reach success. Press
that magic button.
2.
Overcome self-consciousness -- Yes,
self-consciousness is probably the biggest enemy of
self-confidence. We tend to look at ourselves too
harshly and focus on our perceived faults and
shortcomings. To overcome self-consciousness, you
should try focusing on others: try to put other
people at ease, check the room for people who you
might learn to like, make a mental note of possible
business contacts.
Sometimes, if focusing on other people proves
difficult, we can ease our self-consciousness by
looking intently at our surroundings -- examining
paintings, admiring furniture and decor, anything
that will take our minds off ourselves.
3. Don't
Stand For Undue Criticism - Sometimes our
self-esteem ebbs because we allow others to treat us
like rags and walk all over us. This is something we
should never allow, even if we have made a mistake
or come up wanting in a situation. We should bear in
mind that even top-notch people make mistakes.